Lifestyle, honestly.
6 pieces on couple communication, lifestyle etiquette, ethical non-monogamy, and the European scene. Written by the team building Lustimacy.
First time at a lifestyle club — the etiquette guide nobody handed you
A practical walkthrough of your first night at a European lifestyle / swinger club. Dress code, money, drinks, consent, body language, when to leave. Written for couples, with notes for singles.
Why we're launching Lustimacy in Germany and the Netherlands first
A short note from the founder on why these two markets, in this order, with this waitlist mechanic — and what's coming after.
Lustimacy vs Joyclub — which is right for you?
An honest comparison between Lustimacy and Joyclub for lifestyle daters in Europe. Different products, different audiences. Here's how to decide.
Why private photos matter (and why most dating apps get it wrong)
Public-by-default photos are a liability for lifestyle daters. Paywalled photos are a bad compromise. Here's what a real solution looks like, and how Lustimacy built it.
How to talk to your partner about opening your relationship (without it going wrong)
A practical, non-therapy-speak guide to the conversation. What to say, what not to say, how to listen, and how to know when not to start the conversation at all.
What is "the lifestyle"? A 2026 guide for the curious
An honest, jargon-free primer on the lifestyle community — what it is, what it isn't, and how it fits into the broader landscape of ethical non-monogamy.