Lustimacy is the lifestyle dating app for couples, polycules, and open-minded singles. Link up to 3 partners on your profile. Discreet by design, verified at the door, built around what you actually want.
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Lustimacy was designed from day one for the lifestyle community — couples in the scene, singles who play with couples, and adults exploring ethical non-monogamy on their own terms.
Link up to 3 partners to your profile so matches see your relationship structure before the first message. Each of you keeps your own account and swipes independently — the connection is visible, not shared. Lustimacy is the first app to make this honest by default.
Filter for couples, singles, or both. See who's solo and who's got linked partners before you swipe. Detailed profiles tell you the lifestyle, the dynamic, and the energy before you ever start a chat.
New to the scene? Lustimacy is a low-pressure, judgment-free space to learn the language, ask questions, and meet people who'll meet you where you are. No tourists, no creeps, no rush.
Signature features
Five things every other dating app gets wrong for the lifestyle. We built them from scratch.
Link up to 3 partners to your profile. Their photos appear on yours, so matches see who you're already with before the first message. Each partner has their own login and swipes from their own deck — the relationship is visible, not shared.
Every founding member is hand-verified by us — a selfie matched to a profile photo, reviewed by a human. Verification is free for founding members; no AI black-box, no checkbox. Verified-only filtering is one tap away.
Upload the photos you only want a real connection to see. Non-matches see a tasteful BlurHash gradient — they know there's more, but the photo stays yours. The moment you match, it unlocks. No grant flow, no leaks.
Heading to Berlin for the weekend? Visiting a club on the Cap d'Agde corridor? Set a destination and a return date — match with locals before you land, then disappear from the local feed when you fly home.
Looking for couples, singles, or both? Linked partners or solo? Body type, lifestyle, dynamic, distance, age. Every filter we built is one we use ourselves.
How it works
Four steps. No filler, no questionnaires, no algorithm voodoo.
Drop your email. We'll email you the moment your country opens — and you keep your founding-member status forever.
Tell us who you are, who you're with, what you're into. Link up to 3 partners to your profile; solos get the full filter set.
A simple selfie check. Verified profiles get a badge and end up in front of more matches. Verified-only filtering is one tap away.
When the feeling is mutual, the chat opens. Private photos unlock automatically. Take it from there.
Try the rhythm
A real Lustimacy feed is filtered, verified, and curated. This is just a taste — drag a card or use the buttons.
Inside the app
We're starting here
Two countries with the most welcoming, established lifestyle scenes in Europe. We're going deep before we go wide — every founding member shapes the community before the gates open elsewhere.
Outside Germany or the Netherlands? Drop your email — we open new countries based on demand, and waitlist members in your country go first when we do.
Join the waitlistTrust & safety
Every member completes a selfie verification before they can fully match. Verified-only filtering is one tap. Fakes are removed within hours, not days.
No social-media linking. No public profile pages. Your account doesn't show up in Google searches. You decide what's visible and to whom.
Boundaries belong on every profile and we make them easy to set. Block, mute, and report tools take one tap. A human reads every report.
Reach a real person at [email protected]. We answer in hours during European working days, not weeks.
FAQ
We are currently opening in Germany and the Netherlands. Other countries roll out in waves through 2026 — waitlist members in each country go first when we open. Drop your email to be notified the moment your country goes live.
You can link up to 3 partners to your profile — their photos appear on yours, so matches see who you're already with before the first message. Each partner has their own account and swipes from their own deck; the connection is visible, not shared. It's the first app to make couple/polycule transparency a default, not a tag.
You upload private photos in your profile. People who haven't matched with you see only an elegant BlurHash gradient — they know more exists, but the photo itself stays yours. The moment you match, the photos unlock automatically for both of you. There's no grant flow to manage.
Set a destination city and a return date. Lustimacy shows you matches in that city before you arrive, and removes you from your home feed for the duration. Perfect for a lifestyle weekend in Berlin, Amsterdam, or anywhere on the European circuit.
Yes. Sign-up, swipe, match, and chat are free. A premium tier (Lustimacy Plus) adds priority visibility and 'who liked you,' similar to other dating apps. Founding members from the waitlist get a lifetime founder badge and zero-fee verification.
We never link to your social media, never sell your data, and never make your profile crawlable by search engines. Verification photos are checked then discarded. You can delete your account in two taps and your data is permanently removed within 30 days.
Ethical non-monogamy — relationships built on mutual awareness and consent. It includes the lifestyle, swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and everything in between. Lustimacy is a home for the whole spectrum.
Lustimacy is what you make of it. Some people are here for a weekend in Cap d'Agde; others are here to find a long-term play partner or a third for their relationship. The filters and detailed profiles let you find the speed and shape that fits you.
All 1,000 founding spots in our first cohort are claimed. Join the next-wave list — when we open the gates again, you go first. Your founding-tier badge is held for you.
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