Lifestyle dating, made for Amsterdam.
Lustimacy is launching in Amsterdam in 2026 — a mobile dating app for couples, polycules, and open-minded singles. Link up to 3 partners on your profile. Private photos at match. Hand-verified accounts. The first 1,000 Amsterdam founding members get a lifetime badge and free verification.
Why Amsterdam
Amsterdam carries a cultural inheritance most cities don't have — sex-positive defaults, normalized openness, a deeply established lifestyle community that operates without the secrecy you find in most other places. The Dutch don't whisper. They schedule.
That makes Amsterdam ideal for a launch market: established demand, comfortable users, infrastructure that already exists offline. Our job is to be the digital extension of what's already working.
What you get as an Amsterdam founding member
- Lifetime "Founding Member" badge — visible on your profile forever.
- Free verification. Every founding member is hand-verified by the team. Worth €5 to later cohorts.
- Partner perks at Amsterdam lifestyle venues. We're in conversation with several Amsterdam clubs about discounts, priority RSVPs, and free first drinks for verified Lustimacy members.
- Direct founder contact. Suggest features, report bugs, ask anything. Every email gets a reply while we're small.
- Lifetime grandfathered pricing on Premium if you ever upgrade.
The Amsterdam lifestyle scene
Amsterdam (and the wider Randstad — Utrecht, Rotterdam, Den Haag) hosts:
- Long-running couples-only clubs — venues that have been part of the scene for decades.
- Sauna and FKK culture stretching across the Netherlands and into the German border.
- Cross-border travel patterns — many Amsterdam lifestyle users also attend events in Germany, Belgium, and occasionally France. Lustimacy's travel mode is built for exactly this.
- One of the most ratio-balanced communities in Europe. Dutch lifestyle events tend to skew closer to 50/50 single-to-couple ratios, which makes for a healthier social dynamic.
If you're in Amsterdam (or the Randstad more broadly), we want to hear what's already working for you and what isn't. Email us directly if you've got thoughts.
Join the Amsterdam waitlist
The waitlist is country- and city-aware. Amsterdam signups are tracked separately so we can open the city as soon as we have enough verified couples to make matching feel real.
Refer a friend, jump 10 spots. Refer a couple, jump 20 spots and arrive together.