Lifestyle dating, made for Berlin.
Lustimacy is a mobile dating app for couples, polycules, and open-minded singles, launching in Berlin in 2026. Link up to 3 partners on your profile. Private photos at match. Hand-verified accounts. The first 1,000 Berlin founding members get a lifetime badge and zero-fee verification.
Why Berlin first
Berlin has the most active lifestyle community in any European city by a meaningful margin. It's the home of long-running couples-only venues, weekly lifestyle events, and a culture that's been comfortable with adult openness for decades. The community here doesn't need to hide — it just needs better tools.
If Lustimacy works anywhere in Europe, it works in Berlin first. That's why we're starting here.
What you get as a Berlin founding member
- Lifetime "Founding Member" badge — visible on your profile forever.
- Zero-fee verification. Every founding member is hand-verified by the team. After launch, verification is €5 — you skip that.
- Partner perks at Berlin lifestyle venues. We're in conversation with several Berlin clubs about discounts, priority RSVPs, and free first drinks for verified Lustimacy members.
- Direct founder contact. Want to suggest a feature, report a bug, or just chat about the app? Email me directly. While we're small, every message gets a reply.
- Lifetime grandfathered pricing on Premium if you ever upgrade.
The Berlin lifestyle scene
For new lifestyle-curious couples and singles in Berlin, the city offers:
- Multiple long-running couples-only clubs. Venues that have hosted lifestyle Friday and Saturday events for 10+ years.
- Sauna and pool venues with weekly lifestyle nights.
- Private apartment clubs with curated, smaller events.
- An adjacent kink community for those whose interests cross into the kink/fetish space.
- FKK culture across the city, which keeps the social baseline more relaxed than in most other European capitals.
Lustimacy is being built specifically with Berlin in mind. If you have venue recommendations, events we should know about, or people in the scene who'd benefit from early access — email us directly.
Join the Berlin waitlist
The waitlist is country- and city-aware. Berlin signups are tracked separately so we can open the city as soon as we have enough verified couples to make matching feel real.
Refer a friend, jump 10 spots. Refer a couple, jump 20 spots and arrive together.